You know what they say about the best laid plans… Lately planning has brought me nothing but stress, which is the exact opposite of what planning should do. The last few days have been so relaxing due to lack of planning. Tomorrow I turn 29 and the best thing I have taught myself this year is that sometimes the best thing you can do is just let things happen.
When we were beginning the process of planning our wedding, we researched and we talked and talked and talked about it and we went around in circles trying to make a plan. Then the thought of what I wanted came to me, I told hubs, and let him know with 100% certainty that this was what I wanted and we should just do it. We booked everything and the rest is rock and roll history.
Same with my car. Months of searching and going crazy, until finally one day I realized that I already knew what I wanted and went and bought it, no turning back. And it was a great decision.
So now, as we reach a turning point in our lives and I go crazy, nearly having mental breakdowns every few days trying to figure it out, I realize that I need to view this as I have with these other major decisions…trust myself and what I want, know what I am capable of, and just make the move.
Day 19, the object in motion stays in motion and the person who keeps moving forward despite fears, anxiety, and obstacles keeps moving forward, beyond where they ever imagined they could go.